The book, the card games, the Companion tools, sponsorship, and privacy — twenty questions readers ask most.
Research on estrangement suggests most ruptures with fathers are not permanent — the majority see some form of repair eventually. This book doesn't promise a guaranteed outcome, but it follows one real reconciliation from the inside, including the moment it almost became too late.
Yes. A central part of the book deals directly with the sudden loss of the author's father and the words he never got to say. Many readers who've lost a father read it to process exactly that regret, and decide what to do with it going forward.
This book focuses on what you can control — understanding the relationship honestly and saying what you need to say, regardless of how it's received. Several Mirror Lessons address reconciliation you can't force, and the peace you can still find without it.
Both. It's creative non-fiction built on real events, with each chapter closing in a Mirror Lesson — a short, actionable reflection you can journal and apply immediately.
Yes, with some composite scenarios. It's a work of creative non-fiction combining real events from the author's own life with experiences observed from anonymous volunteers, and some created scenarios, grounded in real research on fatherhood and estrangement.
Not yet — it's in production. Get notified the moment it's ready.
Yes. Therapists and counselors use the Mirror Lessons and the Father & Child Workbook as structured, between-session prompts for clients working through family-of-origin material.
Amazon carries the ebook and paperback in the US, UK, Canada, Australia, Ireland, Germany, France, Belgium, the Netherlands, Italy, Spain, Sweden, Poland and Japan. In Nigeria, it's available through Selar and Rovingheights.
The Ebook is the full 20-chapter story on any device. The Paperback is the same story in print, ready to gift. The Companion Bundle adds the reflection tools — the Companion Workbook and Companion Worksheet — for anyone who wants to actually write things down, not just read them.
The paperback + companion journal bundle is built for gifting — it gives the reader somewhere to actually write the letter, not just a book to shelve.
The Companion Worksheet is for reading alone — one tab per part of the book, plus running logs for Mirror Lessons, Conversations and Legacy. The Companion Workbook is the 36-prompt Father & Child Edition, built for two people to answer separately and read aloud together.
Yes — the 12-prompt edition is free to download, no card required. The full 36-prompt Edition (the Companion Workbook) is the paid upgrade for anyone who wants to go further.
Say It Now is a series of 50-card conversation decks built from the same four-stage framework as the book — draw a card, ask it out loud, no reading required first. There are two decks: Grow Together and Healing the Distance.
If you're not currently estranged or avoiding each other, start with Grow Together. If there's real distance — you don't talk, or talking feels tense — start with Healing the Distance instead. Nothing stops you from getting both.
Pre-orders haven't opened yet. Joining the waitlist locks in the current price and gets you early access the moment it's ready — you'll be emailed as soon as pre-orders open.
Yes. It's a free, no-signup swipe preview — fifteen real cards from the Grow Together deck, swipe right to see the next one, no email or names required.
Visit the Donate / Sponsor page, choose how many copies you'd like to fund, and submit your details — the team will follow up directly to confirm pricing and delivery.
Yes — most sponsors give from abroad. Diaspora donors, corporate CSR teams and individual readers all sponsor copies for schools and NGOs in Nigeria from wherever they are.
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