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Four real cards from the Say It Now deck.

No sign-up needed — here's exactly what you'll get. 50 cards across four categories, built for a father and his son or daughter to talk, not just co-exist.

One card per category

Get to Know Each Other. Understand Each Other. Say It Now. Grow Together.

Each of the 50 cards looks like this — a category tag, one honest question, and space to actually answer it out loud.

Get to Know Each Other card: What's one thing I do that reminds you of yourself?Understand Each Other card: What's something about who I am today that surprised you?Say It Now card: Say one thing you're proud of me for that you've never actually said out loud.Grow Together card: What's one tradition you want us to start together?
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What's in the deck

50 cards. Four categories. No board, no winner.

Shuffle, draw a card, read the question out loud. Inspired by Dad in the Mirror, but works entirely on its own — no reading required first.

Get to Know Each Other14 easy openers
Understand Each Other14 deeper questions
Say It Now12 unsaid-words prompts
Grow Together10 forward-looking prompts
Instant PDF download — print at home on card stock, or send to a local print shop. 50 cards, US Letter, ready to cut. For sons and daughters of any age.
A new companion — the joint workbook

Fill it out separately. Then read each other's answers out loud.

The Father & Child Workbook is different from the Companion Journal — it's built for two people, not one. A father and his son or daughter each answer the same twelve prompts on their own side of the page, then share what they wrote, out loud, together.

What's a hope you have for this relationship, five years from now?
DAD'S ANSWER


CHILD'S ANSWER


01Twelve shared prompts — memories, gratitude, fears, hopes.
02Each person answers independently first, without peeking.
03Then you read your answers to each other, one prompt at a time.
04Built for fathers and sons or daughters of any age — no reading the book required first.
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Get to Know Each Other — gamified

Turn the "Get to Know Each Other" cards into a game you can play apart.

Guess how they'd answer 20 open-ended questions about themselves, send them the link, and let them answer for real, in their own words. The result is a shareable pictorial wall — every guess next to the real answer — that you can download as an image and send.

Play the 20 Questions Game →

"A wall of guesses next to real answers — 20 good places to pick up the real conversation."

— what you get at the end, whatever the wall shows
For when the distance is further

Say It Now: Healing the Distance.

A companion edition of the deck, written specifically for fathers and adult children who are currently estranged or in a season of real distance — softer entry points, and a path toward the harder questions instead of starting there.

Download Healing the Distance

"If today isn't the day you reconcile, let it at least be the day you stop pretending the distance isn't there."

— Say It Now: Healing the Distance
Ready for the rest?

50 cards, twelve joint prompts, one real conversation.

Buy the full Say It Now card game, or start the free Father & Child Workbook together this week.